There is this powerful and accurate quote from Choices and Illusions that I would like to share with everyone:
"When you forgive, you essentially undo the ability to blame. If there is nothing to blame, then you are in charge of your response to outside stimuli. There is less room for anger without blame. There is less to fear when your 're empowered."
The concept of giving up blame leads to a feeling of unconditional love for others. This is an important way to feel more like you are a contributing member of the human race. You begin to feel like you fit into the human family. You feel that you are important to the world, and the world returns the favor, by allowing you to experience being connected to others. You have joined the human family. You belong to it and it belongs to you.
The Perfect Match by Kristan Higgins - *From Goodreads: -* *What if the perfect match is a perfect surprise? * Honor Holland has just been unceremoniously rejected by her lifelong crush. And ...